Relationships are how we relate to others. The act of relating with others is what makes us a social being. Affinity begins by sharing texts, pictures, following same meme pages, building upon common interests and in no time trust is assembled through self-disclosure by both the parties. Fabricated/real sexual intimacy unveils. The wheel of love begins to roll with a goal of adoration to last. The accomplice fearlessly conveys about their wants, needs and desires perhaps to have that secured feeling of being seen and heard. No matter how convenient and undefined it may sound we find solace. Without a second thought, we dive deep into the fatuous love that could involve passion and commitment.
By Inquisitive SapienUncategorized
Jul
22
On a Voyage – Life
The skin touch, similarities, randomness , mutual vibes , physical appearance, over-heard compliments or what so ever the reason may be, that very moment becomes something to obsess. The captivating phase becomes the underpin of that bond. The feelings happen to pass more often on the way up to the clouds than just to the seen zone text.
In short, we allow ourselves to be vulnerable. Our inner most child comes out loud to intertwine with the other child. Might not for a relationship but for a situationship ? May be. Our social and emotional histories align us to exist in precarious and risky ride of ships. The unspoken signals lures us to break the conventional barriers of how a relationship should look like and we try to liberate ourselves from the idea ‘what is life without love’ !!
In the name of avoiding personal failing of losing a romantic partner we play house by imagining or by actually seeing someone, with no genuine reliance or dependability. We may go out for trip , Netflix and chill, or go shopping for food together. But it still remains confusing and shapeless loaded with vulnerabilities about what we are and where it's going. In the bubble of our idea of what a partner should look like we hold on to people as soon as we catch a connection.
We all are sailing in quest to find our helmsman to feel respected, heard , valued and to fight the constant uphill battle of void. So, there are people and there are moments and phases in life where we find peace. May be people we see are nothing but the thoughts in different faces……….
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